Monday, January 18

Hard's Day's Night...

....and I've been working like a dog.

So many hours...

On a more positive note, he future hubs and I have been doing marriage counseling, which has been going very well. We are going through this book, which for the life of me I cannot remember the name right now, that's kinda fun. We do it at separate times, and I love it when Ry goes first (it's way more fun to read his answers when he doesn't know what I think first). The good thing about this is that we are talking and learning so much more than we knew before about ourselves and each other. I mean, when you've been dating for three plus years,  from 17-20, you would think that you would know EVERYTHING about the other. But, alas, you don't. And, the other day, we got into a very silly and pointless fight (which, I don't know what was more frustrating, the reason we were fighting or the very fact that we were fighting) and Ryan actually said, and I quote, "Now, the marriage book said that we should give each other some time to calm down and collect our thoughts otherwise we will just keep going around in circles. But I want you to remember that I love you." Awwwww.......I think my heart melted, and I gave him a hug and said I was sorry. I think most of the frustration I feel when I fight can be solved when I feel loved.

After all, all you need is love, right?

1 thoughts:

buhdoop said...

I love this, that was so sweet. We definitely need to buy a marriage book. Good luck with work.

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